
For a long while now there's been a backlash building against the street style frenzy at Fashion Weeks around the world and I've been awkwardly aware that for many I'm most likely seen as an example of what they feel is wrong with the industry, typecast into a parading peacock let loose for the week, before retreating to a dull world where I couldn't possibly continue to wear the same things.
In February last year I turned up to London Fashion Week in a lolita dress I adored and my first wig, which had arrived two days before- a pretty pink and lavender blend with delightfully bouncy curls, which is the kind of hair I wish I had been born with but sadly wasn't. I put it on and immediately felt joyful because I quite simply felt like myself. I wear the same clothes for a day in town, to visit an art gallery or to meet up with friends. Sure my outfits vary from relative simplicity to over-loaded with accessories, depending on what I've got to do that day, but you're not going to catch me in jeans on my day off.
Whenever I get dressed my aim is to wear something that will make me happy. In doing so, as well as compliments I have to face random outbursts of laughter, exclamations of "What the @*#$" and not-so-surreptitious phone snaps. I can't say I like it but I would rather dress to please myself than go out in an outfit I just don't like myself in and that makes me uncomfortable. Is it really so wrong of me to make my day a little brighter by wearing lovely things? The attitude is not limited to strangers but also extends to fellow bloggers and fashion industry professionals. More than once I have found sneaky, and sometimes immensely unflattering, snaps of myself in publications, obviously taken to invite their readers, subtly or unsubtly, to mock what they see.
Turning up on the cobbles that morning at LFW I had no idea how much attention I would get. This may seem naive of me but I'm fully aware I don't have model looks, a sample size figure and a wardrobe full of Céline, and in a way it was a really lovely surprise to see the industry support a wide range of styles. It would be disingenuous of me to say I don't get a little thrill when I find myself in the street style gallery but that's not why I picked the outfit. I go to London Fashion Week to support amazing designers and I feel so honoured to get to see their shows. I'm amazed by the wonderful support and press I have received and I'm so grateful for the opportunities that have come my way.
Today my picture appeared in the Sunday Times Style magazine alongside an article by Laura Weir despairing that "street style is more about attention-seeking than anything a sane person might wear". So besides the fact that my sanity is apparently in question, I'd like to express a few thoughts from the point of view of a so-called 'peacock'. I don't assume or expect that every single person will like my style, whether it's a fashion editor at a show or a stranger in the street in my hometown, but what I do want to express is that just because a person's style seems outlandish to you does not mean it isn't genuine.
I'm sometimes met with a disbelief that I actually dress like this by choice- sadly Angelic Pretty is not giving me clothes to promote them at industry events and yes I do dress like this for life beyond blog posts. This last London Fashion Week I was flummoxed as to what I was going to wear even the day before I headed down to the capital, which was somewhat problematic as I couldn't pack my entire wardrobe into one suitcase. Funnily enough the outfit which appears in Style was the most last minute of them all, decided that morning out of what I'd packed.
Blogger and UK Vogue Talent Contest Winner 2011 Rosalind Jana expressed some of her thoughts on the street style phenomenon in her post People Take Pictures of Each Other, which is well worth a read. One very interesting point she made is whilst "'high-fashion’ fans of the dressing up box such as Daphne Guinness, Zandra Rhodes or the late Isabella Blow are celebrated for their innovation, those who do not have the name to match their outrageous ensembles are often criticized". In Style Weir concedes that there are "those not so desperate to be seen. Take Francesca Burns, the fashion editor at British Vogue, who clashes a Meadham Kirchhoff patchwork fur with Prada flatforms at the shows with no intention of being photographed- it's just the way she dresses."

I find the phrase 'real women' an incredibly irksome one because it implies that only women with curves are 'real' and waifish models are not actually, you know, 'real', when I would wish that all women would be allowed to feel comfortable in their own skin. What is this elusive magic that makes @Oscarprgirl or @Marinalondon "the real deal" compared to anyone else who looks at their wardrobe and picks out an outfit? In Weir's article she quotes Alex Fury, the editor of Love magazine, saying "Pay no attention and they'll stop doing it soon enough.", which makes the assumption people get dressed purely to create a spectacle- what if people actually dress like this simply to please themselves and not for a so called "fashion circus".
Thanks to the phenomenon of street style photography there will undoubtedly be a few people who dress up solely for the purpose of trying to be photographed at Fashion Week. I'm not going to deny it, but perhaps some of these so-called peacocks are just as genuine and "real" as someone in a classically chic tweed Chanel jacket. Who are we to say they're not simply trying to express themselves through clothes just as much as the next person?
Is this Fashion? I reply: does it have to be? Street style photography was never about the pristine designer looks perfectly coordinated for the models, but capturing a sense of individuality. We don't all have to dress the same, but we may as well be able to dress to make ourselves happy or what's the point of it all?

32 comments:
This Weir character sounds like she doesn't know what she's talking about. On the other side of this horrible woman's comments, though, street style is obviously becoming well noticed enough to be in magazines and making people mad! :D Hopefully it will spread! :D
Thank you for this post. Street style is what got me interested in fashion in the first place, so it's good to see someone defending it (and their individuality) when everyone else in the industry seems so keen to see it fade away.
A very well written piece Florrie.
Personally I've always found street fashion incredibly inspiring, ever since I picked up a copy of Fruits as a teen and it's what I enjoy looking at more during fashion week than the actual runways - but maybe that's just me! :) x
What a brilliant blog post.
Nobody should feel they have to justify their outfits to the fashion world. I mean, you wouldn't dream of asking someone why they turned up to London Fashion Week wearing various shades of beige and a large pair of black sunglasses (like almost everybody else there)!
Like the other commenters here, I find street fashion a hundred times more exciting and inspiring than anything else.
Thanks for the very well thought out post. I'm glad that you took the time to cautiously justify your thoughts! It's interesting how over the years "street style" has attracted almost as much attention as the collections that are being shown! However, I think much of street style's popularity can be attributed to the idea that these are "real" people and not models rockin' well put-together outfits.
-jen
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The world would be very boring if everyone dressed the same, I love looking at street style photos and the variety of styles is what makes them so interesting xxx
Very well written! Even just looking at that shot you've taken from the magazine, I am struck by how beautiful, bright and cheerful all the outfits of those pictured are- it's so nice to see a bit of colour and individuality! I do think it's just mean and closed mind for people to say things like that! x
I think the people who moan about the 'ridiculous' street style outfits are always jealous that they don't have the balls to dress as fabulously themselves - fashion is 100% about self-expression and creativity, not just one person's idea of 'this is fashion, this is not' - being so heavily involved in fashion, sadly I encounter this way too much! Isn't fashion always breaking boundaries, evolving and making us perceive things differently, not being pretentious or 'peacocks', as this lady foolishly insists? How rubbish would fashion week be if we were seeing the same boring acceptable garments and trends over and over until our brains hurt? I think you looked damn fabulous at LFW! ;)
Great blog post, I really like the strength of your convictions and dressing to please yourself. It's easy to take the high road and dress to "fit in" or to what others expect of you. Your style has a great sense of joy.
This made me just want to give you a hug. You rock.
Florrie,
I love this blog post. I have been reading your blog for some years now and have loved how you are so true to yourself despite everything thrown at you. Always be that. You are an inspiration.
Hugs.
I love your style, Florrie. Keep being as effortlessly fabulous as you are, my friend!
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I read this yesterday and my jaw dropped when I read "anything a sane person might wear". Way to go insulting the entire sweet lolita community! Made me smile to see a Lolita in The Times :)
I love that street style and blogging have created a kind of democracy in fashion, where everyone has the opportunity to wear their own individual style. It is so much more colourful, interesting and real than anything the magazines can come up with and people are no longer prepared to be dictated to and told what they should be wearing. Of course magazines are bound to have a dig, because they are not really sure of what part they can play in this new democracy. I love your style and if you like it who cares what they think! People will always criticise if you don't conform to the norm.
This is such a great post! Some people really believe that fashion is an expression of creativity, rather than trend-following. They (we!) are the people who use our bodies as canvases.
I get that it's not for everyone, and there's certainly nothing wrong with being on-trend. But when writers/bloggers praise the creativity of designers, but criticise expression through styling - it just smacks of hypocrisy.
I dare them to take a stroll though Harajuku!
This is a really interesting post, thanks so much for writing it and sharing it! First off, I think your style is just lovely, it's expressive of who you are, it's colourful, it's different and it's fun. I think there's a HUGE different between fashion and style. To me, Fashion is all about the trends, the designers, the 'what's hot' features in fashion magazines etc...style is all about yourself. It's not about trends or what's in or what season it is. It's just about you, your mood, your personality, what you like and who you are!
I would love to know her opinion on high fashion designers like Vivienne Westwood and Meadham Kirchhoff who aren't afraid of being themselves, being creative...are they not fashion? Are they just attention seekers too...without fashion week, would they be nothing?
I could go on haha but I don't want this to be an essay lol
x<3
I'm not an attention seeker.
I used to wear my Kimono on Saturdays - mixing between my Yukata and my full Furisode (Which is rather impressive, I have to say). I didn't wear it to be stared at, I wore it because it cost me a heck of a lot of money, and it was a shame not to wear something so pretty, that made me feel so elegant.
The only reason I don't wear it anymore is because my stepmother (as lovely a lady as she may be) dislikes anything that seems remotely strange to her, and wants to keep it away from my sister (Strangely, my stepmother is also highly religious), so I don't wear it, for the sake of peace.
It seems a shame to me though, that whenever I appear to dress differently, people seem to think they have the opportunity to insult me - whether I'm dressed as a Goth, a Geisha, wearing a cricket jumper (comfiest thing -EVER-) or in cosplay. I wear the stuff because it makes me feel good and I can have a laugh - I'd certainly wear it everyday if I owned enough of them!
Bravo on a fabulous piece of writing. I wouldn't go to a lolita meet-up and start photographing women walking around in jeans and t-shirts, publishing it and commenting that they're boring or that it isn't a real 'style'. Truly, anyone who is interested in absolutely any type of fashion - subcultural or mainstream- should accept and embrace the fact that there are people on the completely opposite end of the fashion spectrum than they are. Shocking.
Such a great response to a very small minded and lame article! You tell them Florrie! You have perfectly worded and given a voice to all of us! Us who indeed dress as ourselves and not to fit in, ascertain a social status, get attention or please the crowd! The people who make such judgement might not know how great and empowering it feels like to slip into our second skins when we get all dresses and made-up! However, there will be a curse to this blessing. As street and personal fashion becomes the most talked about thing, you will get the band wagon jumping sheep to destroy it all. As always!
Florrie, this was an absolutely fantastic piece of writing - and a very thoughtful rebuttal to a piece that was composed of huge generalisations. There very much seems to be this sense of hierarchy, whereby certain styles or modes of dress are considered appropriate to celebrate, where others aren't. Genuine style means different things to different people. To you that means a great wig, to others it's skinny jeans and a blazer, Neither is necessarily more valid than the other, so it's a shame to see the industry sticking to rather rigid definitions of what fashion means to them,
I can see why some people object, and to be honest I was tired by the sheer number of photographers at the LFW, but it strikes me that where there is a genuine topic to discuss here, the complexity of the situation is often smothered with snark.
Thank you for quoting me.
First off let me address my favorite "accessory" of yours: your joyful grin. It is so obvious to me that you dress to express, not for attention but for the sheer enjoyment of dressing up in things you love. So I'm not sure why it is seen as needing attention- Peacock preening so to speak.
Secondly: amazing post. You make such good points, stated so well,and THANK YOU for acknowledging the "real women" quandry- I like you am tired of curves being real and skinny being, I guess, not real. I am curvy now, but in my skinny days I hated being treated like a thing- as someone who didn't have real feelings just because I more closely resembled a clothes mannequin than a pin-up. We are all real- I wish to celebrate the variety of real, be it shapes of figures, color of skin, and yes, ways to dress.
You rock, Peacock. I can't wait to see what you wear next.
I love how the crotchety, old squares of the fashion industry like to pretend fashion week hasn't always been a 'circus'. Instead they complain about how, because of the bloggers and photographers, it's just now turning into one. Have the designers just always been showing 'sensible' designs to their friends and families? No photogs allowed, right? It's just silly and a little surprising since fashion week usually seems (to someone who is not on their 'level') as a place to push the envelope. I think we're still in that place in time where everyone is threatened by this new 'thing' coming into their life. That new thing is blogging and despite what Franca Sozzani thinks, I think we're gonna be around for a while.
I also like what you had to say about "real women". I'm no waif, but even if I was I would be just as hurt by someone telling me I wasn't 'real' as when people refer to me as having "extra cushioning". Why can't we get away from objectifying women? The worst part is that women are usually the ones doing the objectifying! Like I would tell the kids I take care "Just stop talking if you can't say anything nice to each other."
Gorgeous post. 100% agree with every point you make. I dress to make myself happy - it's the most important thing about fashion for me.
The article in the Times smells of jelly to me!
A great reply to the article.
I was in bed reading this article on Sunday morning and couldn't believe my eyes when I saw you there!
I agree with some statements of the article- Street style has got out of hand with people dressing outrageously just to get papped.
However, it is unfair to single out people when we know nothing of their choice of clothes.
Just seeing a picture of you, it is clear to me that your outfits are well thought out and have feeling in them. I would never have included you in this 'attention-seeking' group of people. Maybe because I follow your blog? Who knows.
Don't stop being who you are and don't stop wearing what you wear. It suits you and you look fabulous and if everyone had to confidence to wear what they wanted, maybe the general feeling of people would be better.
Stay strong and stay looking fabulous <3
To quote Mean Girls, 'Don't let the haters stop you from doing your thang.'
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i have being wearing my own style of clothes for 35 years now. i don't do it for attention. i usually get laughs. i hate the way mainstream journalists get a hold of something and try and categorise it . some things are just the way they are. lcuy
It smacks of the discrimination many of my friends have to suffer not just in the lolita world, but in games/comics industry I work in, where you can be labelled a "fake geek". I mean, what makes you a "fake" fashionista? How can you tell from just looking whether they're a poser, or if this is actually what they wear all the time? It's so hypocritical.
Well said!
I have to admit that the actual shows at London Fashion Week, on the whole, bore the **** out of me. What I love to see, is the variety of street style outfits, and what other people are wearing - the same reason as I like to read outfit based blog posts, I'm nosey, and I like to glean inspiration and ideas from others on what I could wear with what, which I may not have thought of before.
I used to try and blend in, hiding my favourite, prettiest clothes in my wardrobe for "best" occasions, but one day I decided there was no point in having built up a collection of pretty things which made me happy if I wasn't actually going to wear them, so I either had to start wearing them or get rid. Like you, I sometimes get odd comments, usually from the boring-dressed clones out there, and I appreciate that my style isn't the same as that of my friends, so when we go shopping we aren't all beelining towards the same things. But that's who I am, and all of my outfit posts, like yours, contain photos of things I've worn to go about my life. Because I like them.
Fantastic article Florrie. I'd even call it "gripping" because I didn't really have time to read it this morning, but I couldn't put it down and now I'm even commenting - a seriously well written article and point well made. I personally love how you dress and definitely take inspiration from you, keep it up, cos you're fab :D
My friends spotted you in that odious article and were outraged on your behalf.
I've had the pleasure of bumping into you a couple of times and think you look absolutely beautiful.
How can making the best of oneself be "attention seeking", surely it's human nature?
Fantastically written blog post, Florrie. Keep doing what you're doing. xxx
its a shame society still prefers "conformity" and looks down at whats different and unique and fun to an individual. people wear these things for themselves not to impress or to "peacock". Why these people care about what others wear is beyond me. quite frankly there is absolutely no room for individuality in society, past or present, and it makes me sad. society's point of view " if you're not dressed like us than you are not normal and should be ashamed of yourself"
I'd write in to the Sunday Times, link them to this blog, tell them you're not there for the attention and this really IS how you dress everyday. Heck, I'm more into Romantic Goth and Gothic Lolita and I'm always getting people assume that I do it for the attention and Goth has been known about for decades now - Lolita is newer to mainstream consciousness and people are even more unaware that it is a subculture and not a costume. Who knows, you might even get an apology out of them, or perhaps they might want to interview you about Lolita or something. They probably just saw you as another of the garish people at LFS rather than as perhaps someone who is always like that because there probably are people who dress up especially for LFS. I do think it is wrong for them to assume, though.
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